Sleepwalking #ROW80 /#12WeekYear MidWeek 10 and #IWSG

Hi there, ROWers and friends!

 On Sunday, I wrote about seeking my strut.

Since then:

  • The realization that I need to replace the bed Jim and I shared, and in which he died, has led to sleeping 7+ hours at a stretch – almost unheard of for me –and a new pre-sleep routine that soothes me to slumber. Since the bed is house-shaped, with a peaked rafter roof, it would be perfect as a small greenhouse, so it will remain in our lives.
  • The package with Jim’s ashes safely reached his family, so soon he will have his wish of having them buried at his father’s orchard.
  • I’ve made significant progress in crafting an updated bio, and posted to Patreon for the first time since late September.
  • To get to know my new phone, I read The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, and think it may indeed change my life.

It’s also the first Wednesday of the month, and that means it’s Insecure Writer’s Support Group Day. I’ve been intending to join in for over a year, and now seems as good a time as any.

This month’s question:

How do you celebrate when you achieve a writing goal/finish a story? 

Generally, I take a bit of time to absorb the completion of a major goal, and then move forward with other goals and projects while that warm glow of accomplishment is still fresh. That lets me use the sense of confidence as I delve into other projects.

If you’d like to participate in IWSG this month, please link here.

Blue with Overstrike: Goal Completed.

Green:  In Progress.

Black: Still Waiting.

Black with Overstrike: 86ed.

Red: Goal Change.

 Relationships, Family, and Home:


Complete homeschool reports and submit. Due Week 11.

  • Progress: 47%.

Facilitate Miah’s driving practice; four times weekly. Weeks 10-12.

  • 1/4; local night driving. Discussed where he needs more practice.
  • Progress: 30%.

Move bedroom furniture to better accommodate nurse visits; deep clean as I go; ask for help from kids as needed.  Week 1.

Use one-on-one time to touch base with both kids. Weeks 10-12.

  • Lots of “hanging out” time with Lise; driving, shopping; conversation, Enterprise, and new phone setup with Miah = plenty of base-touching.
  • Progress: 100%

Set aside a few minutes five days weekly to arrange facilitation of needs. Weeks 10 -12.

  • Each day this session. Hometending; personal enrichment; cooking; shopping; connection with and facilitating interests/goals for both. 3/3 for session.
  • Progress: 100%.


Focus on at least ten minutes with some combination of family members in common spaces daily. Weeks 1012.

  • 3/3 days this session: mostly in kitchen area/car while cooking/cleaning/shopping.
  • Progress: 100%.

Gather and consider how to make our home a sweeter place. Weeks 10-12.

  • Lots of conversation; many ideas.
  • Progress: 100%



Inventory sauces; get count on what/how many labels needed: Due Week 3.

  • Progress: 93%

Go through checking account and insurance policy info; make list of monthly/quarterly bills and due dates: Due Week 4.

  • Progress: 85%

Pay Jim’s back sales taxes; find out how to dissolve business. Due Week 6.

  • Progress: 35%.

Do (or delegate) our taxes: Due Week 10.

  • Progress: 25%.

Create a base family budget for the kids and I: Due Week 12.

  • Second step – coffee/lunch; kept tally for deducting from monthly budget allotment.
  • Progress: 57%

Focus on learning via the courses I already have in progress: Weeks 10-12.

  • Progress: 60%.

Work on beta projects I’ve agreed to as opportunity arises. Weeks 1012.

  • Highlighted Chapter 10 for comments; comments for  Sc.1, page 1/5.
  • Progress: 100%.

Keep in touch with other writers –  reading blogs; commenting; participating in sprints and blog hops as I am able: Weeks 10-12.

  • Sprinting Monday and Tuesday.
  • #BOAW2018 Blogfest OriginalThe Beauty of Community.
  • #BOAW2018 Blogfest Girl Boner Edition – She.
  • Progress: 100%.


Make lists of things we could use help with, as we think of them. Weeks 1012.

  • More unwritten brainstorming.
  • Progress: 66%

Ask both kids for ideas at least weekly. Weeks 1012.

  • Talked with both regarding various new ideas.
  • Progress: 100%

Pair lists with those willing to help at least weekly. Weeks 1012.

  • Continued simmering ideas on how to request help with our improvement projects.
  • Progress: 16%

Seek out someone(s) with good organizational skills who can coordinate as/when needed. Weeks 10-12.

  • Progress: 10%

When someone offers general assistance, be ready with ideas. Weeks 1012.

  • Progress: 100%

Body, Mind, and Soul:


Watch Star Trek: Enterprise whenever possible; join in Twitter live chat at #AllStarTrek. Weeks 10-12.

  • Every day, yes, although a bit late Wednesday morning.
  • Progress: 100%

Resume taking pictures, beautifying our home, drawing, coloring, singing, and other activities that I enjoy, as opportunities arise. Weeks 10-12.

  • Home and Garden TV; photography; decluttering/organizing/hometending; singing; coffee/lunch with Lise and friends; mellow 5k training walk.
  • Progress: 100%

Experiment with Instant Pot weekly. Weeks 10-12.

  • Progress: 70%.

Keep eyes open for likely recipes. Weeks 10-12.

  • Progress: 60%

Use Ninja for food prep once weekly. Weeks 7-12.

Alternate days of restful focus with more active days. Weeks 10-12.

  • Each day has held both activity and rest, as I actually slept more normal hours.
  • Progress: 75%.

Listen to my body, mind, and soul, and follow their leads to adjust accordingly.  Weeks 1012.

  • I was craving more regular sleep. Developed a simple routine; it’s led to two solid sleep days.
  • Progress: 100%


Follow a morning routine when possible. Weeks 812.

Use quiet moments as they present themselves. Weeks 10-12.

  • I read The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up during quiet periods, and am simmering some major changes.
  • Progress: 100%.

Make a practice of being present- right here, right now. Weeks 1012.

  • Yep!
  • Progress: 100%.

Prioritize time and connection with my beloveds over busy-ness. Weeks 1012.

  • Much more connection this session. Driving, shopping, general hanging-out with kids and friends.
  • Progress: 100%


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  1. Glad you were able to get that package to Jim’s family and that they’ll be able to see out his wishes.
    I’m terrible at remembering to celebrate finishing goals. Typically I just move on to the next one.
    Lots of blue for the beginning of the week!

    • I’m happy, too. He didn’t want his ashes sitting on a shelf; it bothered me as long as they were. A weight lifted when I knew they were safely there.

      I like that little resting place – but I’m also in awe of your productivity, as your well know.

    • Thank you, on both counts. At first, I thought I’d sleep in it forever – but I need to make something of a fresh start, and give this bed a new purpose. I think I’ve chosen a new one, but not the mattresses yet. I’m going to let the idea settle a bit; I’ll know when it’s the right time to make the change.

      Hoping all is well with you. Miss you every Sunday evening.

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